shawn, the popup will change anyway. but normal borders I do not want as they look ugly.
something like: if visible history or visible buddyes don't minimize. neither can this way user minimize it.
and then when post comes, it will only popup if it's minimized. that also would be a goodie to make shorter... like 5 secs. or just slide other form up saying: new post: blaa blaa (lonkero) then make it wait 0.2 seconds and slide down. this way the popup can't disturb so much.
